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But in the context of the bedroom, words that would otherwise feel infantilizing or degrading can feel gender-affirming or deliciously forbidden. Likewise, it’d be pretty weird to call anyone your master, mistress, or goddess outside the bedroom. But in the bedroom, it can imbue you or your partner with a sense of power and confidence that’s just plain hot. Now, we’re not saying you need to dive headfirst into BDSM. And honestly, these labels can feel reductive and cheesy sometimes.

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• Aside from the nitty-gritty stuff, though, there are also tons of secondary sexual characteristics for you to explore.
• When it comes to advanced dirty talk, Horn suggests that you, “really see yourself as a storyteller, a creative person exercising a skill.”
• “Remember that words we hate in a non-sexual context take on a whole different meaning and feeling in sexual relationships,” says Horn.

Dirty talk during lockdown isn’t just for established couples who are suddenly long-distance because they can’t quarantine at home together, though. It’s also an ideal step for those developing virtual relationships during the pandemic. Lesbian romance stories brought to you as an immersive podcast. Created to make you smile, blush or keep you on the edge of your seat.

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• But the kink community has done a fantastic job of building a helpful sandbox for playing with storytelling through sex that’s super useful groundwork for dirty talk.
• The important thing is to not judge or shame yourself or your partner for whatever that sexy persona or fantasy looks like, whether it’s being dressed in Princess Leia’s gold bikini, a tuxedo, nothing but stilettos, or a dog collar.

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When it comes to sexual fantasies or igniting intimacy throughout the week, Eros knows a thing or two about how to bring it to life, even through texting your partner. The “strap-on” is a sex toy that connects a dildo (penis replica) to a harness worn by one woman and used to penetrate the other woman. It’s a popular toy in adult videos, but is it necessary during sex?

In my own experiences, I’ve focused a lot on bringing women to orgasm. I wouldn’t stop what I was doing until she at least appeared to be satiated, orgasm or not. I realize now that I often rely on maneuvers that men have used with me, and the women seem to enjoy them. “[Sex between women] tends to be more about exploration of bodies,” Aryka concludes. Clean your sex toys after every time you have sex. Realize that lesbian bodies come in many forms (including pre-surgery trans women.) Ask your partner how their genitals like to be touched and how you can validate their gender identity in the bedroom.

Most sex writing tends to focus on sex between men and women, but there are many women either in same sex relationships or simply enjoying sexy sessions with other single women. I spoke with a few about their experiences and found the feedback fascinating and helpful. Whether you identify as lesbian, bisexual, transgender, queer, or something else, I have some tips on spicing up your sex life and having some of the best sex possible if you’re a woman who enjoys sex with women. But how do you start the practice without feeling awkward or guilty for outwardly sharing your sexuality?